2021.10.20 17:21 Fletcher_Ambassador County municipalities not facing housing crisis; Single-family houses the focus
2021.10.20 17:21 georgetds Question: Why are so many apps not supporting common features?
I have for the past summer found myself having to use my iPad for my primary computing device. I am mostly used to it now, although I wish my circumstances allowed me to use a computer (and two monitors, oh how I miss my second monitor) but for the most part I have adjusted to the iPad. This is not my question.
What I am trying to understand is why I keep finding mainstream apps that do not support what I understand are built in features. Why does Minecraft not support mouse and keyboard? Why can’t I use Airplay with Netflix and Amazon Prime? I am starting to get the idea that some companies think my iPad is the perfect place to wage war against Apple (or me?) and are purposefully hobbling their apps to prove a point. What point could Netflix be making by not letting me view movies as I wish? What point can Minecraft be trying to make to say that the mouse and keyboard options in my app “work as intended”?
Free software I would get, but the stuff I am paying money for - especially the subscription stuff, that really annoys me. When I had my computer and constant internet access, none of this mattered but now…. So what is up Netflix? Why am I being played with Amazon? Why tease me Microsoft?
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2021.10.20 17:21 wsantos24 Giratina raid adding ten less goo 4004 8239 0256
2021.10.20 17:21 Pk0rion Therapists of Reddit: what's your thoughts on "trauma dumping"?
2021.10.20 17:21 Complex_Journalist60 Why TLs work for such a low rate?
I've been attending 2-3 bootcamps and Team Leads were working for $17 - $19/hr in a San Francisco and Seattle.
My friends who attended similar bootcamps are asking the same question.
They have enough knowledge to get hired by bigger companies where they can make at least double their income. So, is everyone lying about getting the first job almost around $85K - $100K? Or Team Leads in most bootcamps are not aware of the salary outside?
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2021.10.20 17:21 KorkHamlet This is what I imagine mumbo will build whenever he becomes a red name! Mumbo please build this!
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2021.10.20 17:21 aldur1 Big, fat ferris-wheel wedding awakens residents’ ire in Surrey - Surrey Now-Leader
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2021.10.20 17:21 engineering-sexitime She says she wants to change…
I finally confronted my wife about how she has been mentally and emotionally abusing me (yelling, outbursts, direct orders, threats of all sorts, physically blocking with her body and car, throwing things at me, blaming, shaming, accusations, etc). There has been constant manipulation since i have met her as well. I laid out my non-negotiable boundaries to her, she initially resisted until I held my ground that I wanted a divorce then. She broke down and relented.
She asked me to give her a chance like she had given me ‘a chance’. I fully admit that I had done some negative narcissistic tendencies towards her. She would emotionally abuse me until I relented in pursuing my own tendencies…and even after. It was her threats against my family that finally broke me down and I had a mental and emotional breakdown. As a codependent, I was done. I had nothing to give and realized I needed to protect my mental and emotional self.
I wrote out out a draft divorce plan, but then decided I needed to learn more. For the past three weeks I have learned more about Complex PTSD (which she has), narcissism and codependency (which both of us exhibit these tendencies and traits), emotional abuse, digital abuse, mental abuse, manipulation, and child hood trauma. I did not set out to earn a minor in behavioral psychology and disorders lol
After she relented in abiding by my non-negotiables, she started having an anxiety attack and I had to take her to the hospital. She has begged me to give her a chance like I had given her a chance. Only now she has relented on wanting to see a couples therapist as she claims that ‘would actually do the work’. Every time we are intimate, she wants me to tell her that ‘I’ll never leave’ her, and that she is ‘my true love’. I say it not out of conviction, but because I know she will throw a fit and make claims I do not love her (this is something she would do when at the beginning, I refused to say I love you as I did not feel it).
Yesterday I learn she looked through one of my diaries…I am deeply disturbed by this breach of trust. I can feel the control seeping in again and the manipulation. She Is speaking out against my parents again, and claiming her side…
I am emotionally done in many ways, but also want to believe her that she will change. She is again love bombing me… which does feel nice but I know I can’t trust it as I am on eggshells on when she will drop the facade of her ‘love for her best friend in the whole world’… and I am again faced with the reality I am married to a serial emotional abuser (her first fiancé committed suicide, and her two previous marriages ended when she found her husbands cheating…which makes me wonder what drove her husbands to cheat. Not that their behavior is excusable, as she claims they were both narcissists, but with her emotional abuse has even made me want to reach out to ladies to seek refuge from the storm of emotional abuse).
I guess I understand through an extent I understand what everyone here is going through. I love you all and this is my story I am still living.
The lesson I have garnered about emotional abusers is that they do not change completely. That seems to be the case from your stories, those on YouTube and the therapists speaking out there, podcasts and articles online.
I want to believe she can change and focus on self-love for herself. That is all I wanted from her the past couple weeks… practice self love, self care, self soothe herself so she can stop all this hateful behavior. But hearing from the stories… I am not sure if she can.
She says she is remorseful and that she cannot believe she was abusing me… she acknowledges her behaviors and narcissistic tendencies. She had made appointments to meet more frequently with her therapist and meeting with her group.
She continues to text incessantly and very clingy when she is around me. Trying to convince me she loves me and adores me.
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2021.10.20 17:21 cactuspie1972 Getting over an ex
Looking for a different perspective. My ex and I still have a good relationship. We ended things on good terms and we still “date” every couple of weeks. We both enjoy each other’s company, love each other, but long term we know it won’t work out.
The problem, is that I still want to be exclusive with him even though I know I shouldn’t. Normally I’m very decisive, but with him I go back and forth with wanting to be with him, then knowing I shouldn’t.
God it hurts when you love someone! There was a period when I couldn’t be around him because it was too painful.
So, part of me feels like I should cut ties, but we are still good friends. I am just having a hard time moving on. Any thoughts?
Thanks in advanced
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2021.10.20 17:21 KazualRecruiter Come join the Kazuals! [NA] [ENG] [Discord]
I am the owner of the Discord server "The Kazual's". We've had great success at making a non-toxic Rainbow 6: Siege & League of Legends server we are now trying to branch into Escape from Tarkov. Below you will find our requirements to join, if you believe it will be a good fit for you, click the discord link below and fill out a quick application and help us grow!
Requirements: Region - NA Teamwork - A working mic, call outs, re-frags, supporting each other, being positive. Non-Toxic - This is our core server rule. Zero tolerance to any toxicity. Instant removal. Maturity - Zero-tolerance to drama. We are all adults. If there are issues, talk to any Moderator and we will ensure it is sorted out. Age - 15+
If you meet the servers requirements, please click the link below and fill out an application. Applications are usually looked at within 30 mins.
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2021.10.20 17:21 Definitely_a_Lizard 'Always Prepared' gear, any experiences?
2021.10.20 17:21 GIANCO345 Facebook Metaverse
Hello everyone, I'm kind of new in DCL.
What do you think will happen with DCL with the Metaverse Facebook is planning to build?
I want to know your thoughts! Thanks!
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2021.10.20 17:21 DoomSlayer_ [PS4] Anyone got a lvl 60-70 character the wanna coop against aldritch on? Will be much fun
2021.10.20 17:21 angelic_yield ...Does anyone have a cow I can potentially borrow (I'll pay)?
uhh. So basically I'm a senior in highschool and I'm dying to do a prank and I want to bring a cow on campus later on in the year. I can't find any professional services for that sooo I was wondering if anyone is willing to let me rent their cow for a couple hours. I don't need it now or soon I'm just wondering for the future, I want to do it before I graduate. Also if you could transport it?
this is weird af lmao
if anyone knows any other funny highschool prank ideas lmk!
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2021.10.20 17:21 Anon_Fluppie Baas negeert burn-out, en forceert werknemer fulltime door te werken
Hoi, ik zit in een lastige situatie. Om het verhaal zo kort mogelijk te houden zal het wat beknopt zijn:
Een aantal maanden geleden kreeg ik psychische klachten door veel verschillende factoren waaronder stress op het werk. Ik heb meerdere keren verbaal om een rem gevraagd, maar deze werd helaas genegeerd, en vervolgens werd er nog wat extra werk op ze hooivork gegooid. Dit heeft geresulteerd in een mislukte zelfmoord poging, paniekaanvallen op het werk, veel fysieke klachten en depressieve gedachten. Recentelijk heb ik 2 weken vakantie gehad. In de week voordat mijn vakantie begon ben ik helaas geknapt op het werk, en is er besloten dat ik ziek naar huis ging. Ik heb op eigen initiatief een afspraak gemaakt bij de arbo-arts. Die was van mening dat ik eerst mijn vakantie moest uit zitten, en dat we daarna weer zouden spreken. In de tussentijd heb ik professionele hulp gezocht, maar de wachtlijsten zijn enorm. Ik ben dus nog niet geholpen. Ik ben inmiddels (direct toen mijn 2 weken vakantie afliep) anderhalve week halve dagen werkzaam, en met veel moeite. Dit heb ik ook aangegeven. Nu zitten mijn collega's, en leidinggevende mij onder druk te zetten om binnen nu en 2 weken weer fulltime aan de slag te hebben nadat ik nog geen 3 weken thuis heb gezeten(zonder hulp). De bedrijfsarts die ik vandaag voor de 2e keer bezocht heb, vond ook dat het werkbelang zwaarder woog. Ik moet dus nu erg vlug re-intergreren, terwijl het nu alleen maar weer slechter begint te gaan, omdat ze me dus wel volledig inplannen en geen aangepast werk voor me hebben (en dus weer deal met dezelfde problemen als voor de vakantie)
Help, wat kan ik doen? De bedrijfsarts denkt in het belang van het bedrijf, de vakbond is niet erg sterk, en leidinggevende geeft geen f*ck, want die gaat bijna met pensioen.
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2021.10.20 17:21 Serious-Fee3643 Tääl o kaikki
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2021.10.20 17:21 clayides Shop in Altoona, PA allegedly sells “pizza”.
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2021.10.20 17:21 Stowaway33gg I need help
I got a message from my brother’s roommate that he isn’t in the best mindset and that they wanna help him. I haven’t been in contact with my brother but I have with his roommate and he asked me personally to help him. What do I do? Refer them to therapy or what. They said their relationship is not helping them they aren’t doing great rn.
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2021.10.20 17:21 Marc123123 ‘Scum’, ‘louts’, ‘oddballs’: what Tories really think of Croydon
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2021.10.20 17:21 nohopegeneration Wallpaper commission drawn by me!
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2021.10.20 17:21 ChibiChannn_ I'm bored
2021.10.20 17:21 Responsible-Button56 Add a troll boss to the game
So i dont have to kill 170 ice troll runts all the time, makes the troll task more interesting
Could even make Dad a fightable boss after the quest
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2021.10.20 17:21 flavius_lacivious The social dynamic of the Great Resignation.
Here’s what I think has happened.
When COVID hit, many mid wage workers were forced to move in with parents or the parents needed the kids to move back home.
It was no longer a badge of shame to live with parents because everyone was doing it. And it was a better financial situation for many.
Status symbols no longer mattered.
People thought it was going to be financially devastating (and it was for some), but they experienced how much having a job cost them. The savings of not having to go to the office, wear work clothes, buy lunches, or working from home was enormous.
Secretly, many people discovered they were so much happier.
They assumed it would be really stressful to do this, so they braced for it. Many people learned that capitalism was what was making them stressful — the constant grind of supporting a career that just about everyone hated.
It wasn’t the low pay which was making them miserable and surprisingly, it wasn’t the lower standard of living. It was the “losing” — working their asses off and never finding satisfaction because it was never in reach. The goal posts kept getting moved. Workers rejected the lies of capitalism.
The pandemic was a real eye opener. Workers discovered that there was more to life AND they could live with less.
This is what is happening now. People are unwilling to return to jobs which make them stressed and miserable because there is no upside to it. You’re never going to make it to the promised land.
You cannot work towards a happy life because you can’t ever be happy working 50 hours a week, sitting in traffic, and being treated like shit. It doesn’t matter how much you get paid, but it’s worse when you do all that and still struggle financially.
Going home at night didn’t give you a break from the misery because you never had enough money.
Workers learned they could give up certain things like their own apartment, a car, a career and have the life that they enjoyed. They could get back their mental health and time with family.
People aren’t quitting jobs or bad managers. They are abandoning the lie that you can kill yourself in a job and be happy.
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2021.10.20 17:21 PTTGossipingBot 10/20 photo 板 10+ 推的文章有 1 則PTTGossipingBot to PTTGossiping [link] [comments]
2021.10.20 17:21 AdventureStorm Ingredient Amount in Brownies?
So I saw this tasty video that I tried and it resulted in really delicious brownies, the only problem is that I'm making some to take to school and I need more than what the original ingredients produce which is about 8-10 pieces. Do I just double the ingredients, ex: if they use 2 eggs I use 4, 8 oz of chocolate, I use 16? Or do I make the same batch they make in the video but twice or thrice? Does it really matter and what difference does it make?
Thanks in Advance :)))
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