2022.01.26 10:42 Low-Internet6032 I (24F/NB) have a much higher sex drive than my husband (24M). How can I cope with rejection?
TL;DR - my husband doesn't want sex as much as me, and it's making me worry that he's unattracted to me.
Throwaway because I only wanna get this off my chest.
Firstly, I'd start by saying my husband and I have a great relationship. We're affectionate with each other and have great chemistry. He's very romantic with me, and open about what he wants sexually as well.
However, I'm the one who tends to initiate - and most of the time, I get rejected. Including for non-sex sex acts (where there's less pressure on him, I thought?).
I don't ever, ever, EVER want him to feel like he has to say yes - which is why I'm here, and not telling him this, which I think would make him feel pressured - because consent is important. Sex is for enjoying, not stressing about.
We have sex 2-4 times a month. I could go for every other day - but he isn't usually into it, and there isn't always some particular reason that could be easily addressed. I dress up, we talk about fun new things to try fairly often - but I just have this creeping feeling that he doesn't want me. I can't fulfil all his fantasies from porn - and normally, that'd just suck and be something I could brush off anyway. But every time I get rejected, I feel a bit uglier, a bit sloppier, a bit more silly.
When we do have sex, it's great (or at least I think so?) - satisfying, intimate, and passionate. There was a period where he kinda just looked like he was waiting for it to be over; I was fixating on how long I was taking to climax, convinced that was why he didn't fancy sex much, and of course that made it harder to climax. Sigh
I've talked to him a lot about sexual attraction; what he likes, fetishes, and things he wants to try to see if he likes them. So we're communicating actively, just not about frequency.
I'm not overweight, and have a BMI of about 20 (I lost weight recently and started strength training). My self esteem around my looks comes and goes, but I know that I'm not ugly. Although he loves me, maybe I'm just not what he wants physically anymore.
Or maybe I'm just conditioned to think men must want it all the time, but I'm kind of struggling here. Masturbating is fine, but it doesn't hold a candle to sex with the love of my life. It doesn't help that the love of my life is smokin'.
Has anyone ever found a way around this without pressuring your other half? I don't want to talk to him about this specific thing if I can avoid it.
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2022.01.26 10:42 shiekhyerbouti42 Antiwork
I saw your low-level hit piece with Doreen. I work and go to college and I have aspirations - want to hear from someone you can't talk down to in that way, or are you cowards?
The mission to end or reduce work is not one born of laziness but rather a hatred of a culture excited to live a life of indentured servitude. We don't want to sit on our butts all day, we want to be masters of our own fate (well, okay, some of us want to sit on our butts all day - not gonna argue that but I'm not one of them).
To find someone easy for your audience to smirk at and not have a substantive discussion with us is pure cowardice. I dare you to put me on instead. But again you got the caricature your propaganda demanded and you're cowards, so I'm fairly certain you won't.
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2022.01.26 10:42 calprofen Designing the Future of Food
Dear Food Science
My reason for posting on Food Science is that I need a credible source to support the science end of the concept.
I am an Industrial design student at university. Currently, I am working on a design project that envisions the future of 3D printing food in the home kitchen.
I am proposing that in 2030-2035, a food printer will be a popular appliance to own in the kitchen at home, similar to today's microwave. My task is to design the look of the printer and the food this printer produces. This requires me to know the food's material state before printing.
Here is where I need your help.
I am proposing that the user fills the food printer with a range of cartridges containing different elements that make up the structure of the food. Each cartridge would contain a stock of either a molecule or flavour compound, which would be added accordingly to replicate the sensations of a particular food. These elements are extruded into a gelatin-like binding mixture used to hold the ingredients together and provide a substance to eat.
In context, the food printer would produce a beef burger patty by extruding the binder mixture, forming the shape of the patty. During the shaping process, the food printer adds the necessary molecules and flavour compounds required to achieve the taste and nutrition of the beef burger patty.
My question to you all.
In theory, would it be possible to create food in this method?
I appreciate this might be a confusing post. I am happy to answer any questions and welcome any response. I appreciate any help you can provide.
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Our air intake on our furnace keeps freezing shut. I’ve heard from a few people that I can just cut my intake pipe and have it pull in air from our basement. Is this true? I’m really tired of waking up to a 55 degree house in the winter. Our basement is about 10x20 and it is unfinished.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Anyone got the correct dates?
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I am new to this subreddit and hope to be posting this correctly.
I was wondering if anyone had ideas on what might be causing this very annoying intermittent Buzzing Sound coming from my ceiling. I think it might be coming from the HVAC vent. I'm at the top floor of my condo.
I just moved in and the apartment building is new (2019).
Please see this audio file for the recorded sound: buzz audio.
Thanks for your help!
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So a friend and I have registered an LLC with my state as 50/50 owners as a partnership. Through the IRS when trying to receive an EIN I listed my name as a member but used his address as his address is listed as the physical address of the business.
Is this a bad idea? Can I change the name to his rather than mine? Or do I need to send the IRS a letter requesting cancellation of the EIN.
Thank you. I have been very stressed about this poor thought out decision I made.
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